Would a tantric master have taken you as a disciple?
The Tantras do not ask for what people imagine. They give a list of qualities, and a longer list of people to refuse. Seven questions, each set beside what the text says.
John Woodroffe, a judge in Calcutta, published under the name Arthur Avalon the first serious studies of the Tantras. In Shakti and Shakta (1918) he reports what two of them require of anyone who wants to be initiated. The test is for a woman as for a man: these texts, he writes, provide for both sexes. Nothing is sent anywhere.
Where this comes from, and its limits
We have not read the Tantras themselves, but what Woodroffe reports of them in Shakti and Shakta (1918), read on archive.org. He quotes the list of the Gandharva Tantra in full and says of the thirteenth chapter of the Kularnava Tantra that it holds “a long list” of which he gives only part: our test therefore cannot be complete.
Woodroffe was writing to defend these texts against the charge of licence; his choice of quotations serves that argument.